A confidential space to explore the thoughts, feelings and challenges in your life
Psychodynamic Counselling, Psychotherapy, Couples Therapy, and CBT Therapy
If you can relate to, or identify with any of the following issues, I hope I can be of some help to you making a difference in your life and those around you.
Please get in touch if you feel I can help.
Individuals
Couples
Are you experiencing any of these issues in your relationship?
About Me
My name is Joyline. I am a highly experienced psychotherapist, counsellor, and couples therapist. I specialise in individual therapy and couples therapy. I have been practicing as a psychotherapist for
over 15 years, and I am incredibly passionate about my work. Throughout this journey, I have helped and supported thousands of people facing a wide range of
life challenges and relationship difficulties. I am accredited by the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP) and an Accredited Professional Registrant with
the NCPS. I am also listed on the NCPS Relational Therapist Accredited Register. I invite you to browse my site to gain a clearer understanding of what therapy is and the different types of therapy I offer (Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), and Couples Therapy, and consider whether I can be of any help to you or your loved one.

Apart from being a Counsellor and Psychotherapist, I am a lecturer at the Institute of Couples Therapy (www.instituteofcouplestherapy.com), where I teach on the Post-Qualifying Couples Therapy Training Course. Previously, I lectured for six years at Birkbeck, University of London, teaching on the MSc in Adult Psychodynamic Counselling and Psychotherapy.
l am part of Number42 Group practice www.number42.org.uk. based in Borough/London Bridge Central London. I also have a small counselling and psychotherapy practice in Milton Keynes. I offer face to face therapy from these locations and work online via Zoom the majority of time.
My Therapeutic Approaches:
In individual therapy main therapeutic approach is Psychodynamic and l also practice Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) approaches, tailoring therapy to each client’s needs and meeting them where they are. The psychodynamic psychotherapy modality provides depth and meaning making by exploring connections between the past and present, and between conscious and unconscious drives and motivations. This approach views the person as a whole and helps us explore how early life experiences may relate to current difficulties—repetitive negative patterns, troubling thoughts, overwhelming emotions, and unhealthy ways of relating to yourself and others. Psychodynamic psychotherapy provides insight into the sources of your difficulties, enabling you to develop the agency to make meaningful changes. It is a deeper mode of work that allows you to safely process emotions that may feel unbearable and overwhelming. The therapeutic relationship is central to this work as it allows us to develop and understanding oof how other relationships are experienced in real life.
CBT offers practical tools and strategies to navigate challenges that may impair daily life and functioning, while psychodynamic work emphasizes meaning, psychological understanding, insight, and emotional
processing. CBT equips you with skills and techniques to manage negative behaviours, feelings, thought patterns and integrates learning of self regulation skill and techniques. It is typically short term (6–12 sessions). CBT is very helpful to people who are experiencing acute anxiety and or depression. Depending on your needs, I may work intergratively or begin with several CBT sessions to ground you before transitioning to psychodynamic work. The exact approach will be agreed in the initial consultation, where we explore your difficulties.
I also work with couples who are experiencing relationship difficulties and seeking professional support in a safe, contained environment. My approach to couples therapy draws on multiple modalities:
-Bader-Pearson: rooted in psychoanalytic and attachment theories.
-PAIRS: grounded in positive relational skills training.
-Additional influences: Gottman Method and Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT).
By integrating principles from these modalities, I tailor couples therapy to meet the unique needs of each couple. I offer both open-ended, ongoing sessions and short-term work; the format is determined by the nature of the challenges and the couple’s time commitments. For more details, please see my couples therapy webpage.
My Therapeutic Style:
My overarching approach is warm and relational. I strive to create a safe, consistent environment where two (or three, in couples therapy) people can engage in the delicate work of exploring difficulties and confronting the realities of life.
My role is to walk alongside clients, helping them navigate their life paths when it feels difficult or frightening to do so alone. Despite qualifications, titles, psychodynamic/psychoanalytic training which emphasises detachment, and extensive experience, I am human—and I bring that human connection to my work. This is evident in how I prioritize emotional safety, relationship building and connection, ensuring clients feel valued and empowered with autonomy throughout their unique journeys. I have had the privilege of helping many clients as a psychotherapist. My belief in the transformative effects of psychotherapy is reinforced by the clarity it brings, symptom relief, increased agency, and enhanced emotional maturity. I have also witnessed clients leave therapy feeling more whole and living more meaningfully.
Workshops and CPD:
In addition to therapy practice, I teach and facilitate workshops:-
Relationship Enrichment Workshops: designed for anyone interested in improving communication and conflict resolution skills, with a focus on healthy coupling, emotional literacy, and constructive conflict resolution.
Clinical Workshops: NCPS validated workshops targeted to qualified therapists and therapy trainees.
Please visit the Relationship Enrichment Workshops page for details on those offerings, and the Clinical Workshops page for information about upcoming CPD opportunities.
In the initial consultation session, we will explore your difficulties, and identify the best way forward. I work on an open-ended basis, or for an agreed time period. I also offer one off consultative therapy sessions which are highly useful to people with demanding lifestyles, and unable to commit to regular psychotherapy sessions.
I am registered with Cigna, Axa, Aviva, Vitality, Healix, and WPA, and recognised as a Healthcare Provider.
Blogs and Psychoeducation:
Feel free to browse my blogs on the blog page of this website, where you will find a range of reader friendly articles l have written on topics around mental health in general, psychotherapy, and relationships-familial and intimate. Please note that these articles do not constitute medical advice; see a health care professional if you are in need of specific professional advice.
Out of the 40+ blogs l have written so far, l am delighted to have written about some of the topical areas in the world we currently live in such as:
Feel free to give me any feedback, and topic requests via my email or through the enquiry link below.
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Issues I can help with
People come to me for help a wide range of issues. Below you'll find a list of the difficulties I have helped clients with:
Panic Attacks
Anxiety
Depression and low mood
Addiction and dependency
Anger
Guilt
Shame
Rejection
Loss and bereavement
Major life decisions
Eating disorders
Chronic Physical ill health
Identity crisis
Poor self esteem
Insomnia and fatigue
Post traumatic stress
Mood swings
Unresolved childhood issues
Fertility issues
Communication difficulties
Betrayal and Trust
Conflict resolution
Infidelity and cheating
Childhood sexual, physical, emotional abuse and neglect (trauma)
Family issues
Codependency
Parenting issues
Loss
Bereavement
I practice from 2 different locations - City of London at Number 42 Well Being Practice, Borough High Street and in Willen, Milton Keynes, Buckinghamshire.
The central London practice is right outside London Bridge Tube Station, taking the Borough High Street exit. It is also close to Southwark Tube Station, Borough Tube Station, Waterloo station, Tower Bridge, South Bank, and Bermondsey.
This London area is well serviced by National Rail, Underground, London Buses, and Taxis. The practice is also very close to the overhead trains stations, and the Thames River Boat Services.
The Milton Keynes psychotherapy and CBT practice is easily accessible by car, public transport and walking from nearby villages.
I also offer sessions over Zoom, Skype or Telephone. These sessions are scheduled in the same fashion as face to face sessions.
Individual- 100 per session
Individual- 100/hr per session
Individual- 100 per session
Standard - £150 per session
150 per session
Relationship Enrichment Workshops
£120 per workshop
Cancellations: It is usual practice to charge the regular fee for a session cancelled by the client less than 48 hours beforehand. A full fee or half the session fee is applicable upon exploration of the reasons for cancelling. Any cancellations made by client with a 4 weeks notice will not be charged and half the session fee is applicable for any cancellation less than that time frame
Get in Touch
Please get in touch if you have any questions on Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Couples Therapy, or Relationship Enrichment Workshops, or if you like to book an initial session.
You can also call me on 07960462532 if you would prefer to leave a message or speak to me first. I am happy to discuss any queries or questions you may have prior to arranging an initial appointment.
All enquires are usually answered within 24 hours, and all contact is strictly confidential and uses secure phone and email services.
It is true that the hustle and bustle of modern day city life leaves some people with little or no time to reflect on themselves. As a result, we find ourselves experiencing stress, low mood, anxiety, poor confidence, low self-esteem, poor sleep, problems with relationships with our loved ones or work colleagues, addictions, at times questioning what life is all about, and genuinely wondering about our purpose in life altogether. The stress of present day life also leads to burn out- cognitive overload, and extreme physical exhaustion. As a result, one adopts unhealthy ways of coping, which have a negative impact on one's mental and psychological well being.
At times, there may be some issues from the past that are unresolved, and affecting different aspects of your life. Therapy offers a reflective space where you can unwind and get to know your self more intimately. It also enables you to find healthier ways of being and relating, emotional processing, find healthier ways of managing any problems you are faced with, work through, and develop the capacity to reflect on yourself which is hugely significant. The decision to start therapy is an important one, albeit, not always easy. Evidence suggests that the key ingredient in any therapeutic encounter is the relationship between the therapist and the client.
It is therefore crucial that you find an experienced therapist, who you can connect with, and walk side by side with; a therapist who offers you a safe space where you feel comfortable, respected, understood, validated, listened to, and safely develop the ability to tune into the deeper parts of yourself. Therapy can therefore help you be in tune with yourself, and live life more meaningfully. I firmly believe that psychological well being should be seen in the same light as physical well being. The stigma around mental health and psychological well being is what perpetuates the unnecessary suffering that most people go through, without seeking help at the right time.
Call me on 07960462532 or email me on info@citysanctuarytherapy.com. You can also call or email me by clicking the email or call link buttons further up the page. If I am unavailable on the phone, please leave me a message with a name and number. I aim to respond to all messages (email, text, and voicemail) within 24 hours.
Yes. I am an adult Psychodynamic Psychotherapist and l work with ages from 18 and above. I also work with couples.
The choice of therapy we decide in our consultation depends on the nature of your difficulties and what brings you to therapy. Our sessions for time limited psychodynamic counselling and CBT will be 6-12. Our open ended psychotherapy will have no set end date from the beginning. It is however important that we work towards an ending when we do decide to end therapy, as this is a very important part of our work. The length of time you spend in therapy depends on the nature of your difficulties and the depth of the work. Most people stay in therapy for a number of years to allow themselves sufficient time to work through some of the deepest conflicts, and issues from their past that may be impacting on the present, therefore addressing the whole self.
Ending Therapy: The decision to end psychotherapy is very important and should always be well talked through with the therapist. The ending process itself is a very significant part of the therapeutic work which also reflects on how we end other relationships in life. Abrupt ruptures or endings at particular times, like any course of treatment, can prove anti therapeutic.
It is always recommended that at least 4-6 weeks are taken to end and in
most case a longer time is appropriate. We will continuously review our work and the ending will be mutually agreed.
It is usual practice to charge the regular session fee for a session cancelled by the client less than 48 hours beforehand. A full fee is applicable to a cancellation made with less than 48 hours notice. Any cancellations made by the client with a 4 weeks notice will not be charged, and half the session fee is applicable for any cancellations made less than that time frame- ie 48hrs and 4 weeks. This is because the space is reserved for you and therefore open even if you do not attend. You will not be expected to pay for any sessions cancelled by me and during my holidays. l will give you my holiday dates well in advance, and I will also seek to have your holiday dates in advance.
YesI typically raise an invoice at the end of each month, unless you prefer to pay weekly or fortnightly, which can be arranged. Payments can be made via bank transfer, Paypal or in cash. This should be done in a timely manner.
Individual sessions last 50 minutes, and couple's therapy sessions lasts 50-60 minutes. Sessions are once weekly at agreed times. This will be agreed in the initial session. At times, I do offer twice a week or fortnightly sessions, depending on my clients' needs and life demands.
Psychodynamic Counselling and Psychotherapy and CBT sessions cost between £100 per session for individuals. The rate for couples therapy session is £150 per session. These flat rates are applicable to both London and Buckinghamshire (Milton Keynes) locations, as well as online. Some insurance clients may have to pay the difference between the insurance and my standard fee. I am recognised by Axa, Aviva, Cigna, WPA, Healix, and Vitality, as a healthcare provider. If you have insurance through any of these companies, you will be able to use it. Please confirm the validity of your cover first.
CBT is a practical approach which helps you find ways of managing present day distress, while psychodynamic psychotherapy helps us explore and address the source of the distress. Using the metaphor of a house on fire- CBT is akin to putting out the fire flames-cooling and smothering the flames, so that the fire dies down. Psychodynamic work is akin to us figuring out the cause/source of the fire altogether. This is important, otherwise one runs the risk of having yet another fire.
I work with couples, offering couples therapy. However, this needs to be agreed right from the beginning of our work.
Sessions are confidential unless if there are legal implications or in the event of serious risk factors that your GP or other practitioners have to be aware of. As an ethical practitioner, any decision to do so is always in your best interest. I have full indemnity insurance to cover my practice as a therapist. All information kept about you is stored in line with the GDPR laws.
Yes, we can have sessions over Zoom, Skype or Telephone. These sessions are scheduled in the same fashion as face to face sessions.
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